What to do! >_<

RiRi SG

Irony of things, Previous round i was posting about getting rejected..

Now i'm stuck in a case whether to reject or not -_-..

Ok here's the story, thr's tis girl who likes me,
and the thing is my feelings for her are 50 50
Meaning that i like her a bit but i dun realli love her that much

Now she tells me she really likes me and i'm stuck
and i have no clue as to wat to say -_-

I don't know if i like her or not and I dun wanna make her go thru what i went thru b4 -_- so i'm kinda in a delima.

Although I've been thinkin hard i really have no idea wat to do -_-
If it's one thing that keep bothering me, its that shes from another country(some place far north make a guess)
But I really don't know if that's the stupid reason for stopping me.
And that I'm afraid tat if i do go ahead it'll b one of those hard relationships or worst short term ones -_-''

Thing is I don't know my feelings at all even after i think and think (1 week of thinking already) >_<

What am I to do =|

King Utter SG

Dilema. Anyway, don't commit to anything if you're not interested to contribute to building a relationship.

sgboy2004 SG

she can like u...u need not necessary reciprocrate if u dun wanna Very Happy

Devil1976 SG

Tell her you can consider but would like to know her better as a friend 1st?

RiRi SG

I already know her quite well as a friend~

But now she tells me this

M©+square SG

What's the 'this' you're talking about?

pete98 SG

If you are already having fear about the difficulty of a hard relationship before you even starts anything then don’t bother. It seem to show you are not willing to sacrifice for this relationship in the first place, so what makes you think you are willing to substain it in the long term.

Devil1976 SG

So what do you think? I think that you shouldthink about what you want and see if things can work out for the both of you... Let her know your stand.. Her chances and such.... Only fair that she also know what's the situation like?

mushigen SG

Don't be a jerk. If you don't like her, just tell her that. No need to lead her on. It causes more heartache to her.

What's so dfficult about telling her that? Women have no problem telling men that, so why should you be worried about telling her that?

Yunhaier SG

She likes you and you are stuck?

To love is black and white - either you do or you don't. If you have to THINK about it, you belong to the latter.

What so 'thinking hard' about it? You can't expect yourself to 'think' until you fall for her or accept that relationship because you feel like giving her that chance. Most of the time, it doesn't work that way.

Continue to be friends and let your emotions have a clearer picture. No point put haste and end up making regreted decision in the future. If you are unsure, then make sure. Idea

Cheers

gerrykoh SG

Just tell her u like her as a friend and that u are not sure abt going into a relationship. Don’t feel pressurized just because someone tells u she likes u.

SunRisE SG

You think you like and not love.. then no point thinking about it.. you already have your answer.. to her... it might be jus a crush.. then after that she declare that she likes you.. then when the feelings for her.. is about tobe gone with wind.. it came back again.. jsu because of the three killing word.. "she likes you"...

And there.. you think that you like her.. but not alot.. cos in the first place.. you wanna ask her to be your gf.. but then again.. being afraid to get rejected.. so then you stop having the idea of asking.. You are jus confused that when you wanna to ask her.. she has no feelings for you.. but when you drop that idea.. she came telling you all these..

That's no need to htink if you really like her.. i think you both stay better off as friend..

Cheers .. Wink

Cheers..

sgFish SG

Dilemma